When you hear a phrase:"Personal Leadership" it seems to be some kind of possibility of reflection your own status. Maybe you are quite sure, that your life needs some look- back. A process, which will make you realize: “Okay, so this is what I am, how can I work with this? What I can do better and which things to achieve?” The art of Personal Leadership narrows your path and you will finally be able to use your inner-self for other people.
It definitely gave a me a strong feedback which was somewhere back in my head. As I was writing constantly everyday about my weakness, I got much more focused on the aspect, tried to work on it and not let it become a part of my personality. I´ve developed during the time when writing the diary, a dilemma which at least made me to stop for a while, breathe and rethink. It made me to realize enough to take my own time and rejudge the situation and how to properly behave in some kind of situation.
Perception
Stimulus response
Proactivity
I´ve chosen values over the feelings when I decided to stay at home, read a book instead of going out with my friends to the party.
I´ve chosen feelings over the values when I´ve applied to a charity work in India, even when my mum begged me not to go.
It is the service which provides a self confidence in you. A natural help which comes out automatically and makes you to be proactive. Makes you happy and loved and people in love have many ideas.
The difference between the ethics:
-Personality ethics: comes out naturally, it is your inside
-Character ethics: values which we can change, it is the outside
Programmes can be changed but not the principles. We give first energy to others without being focused on ourselves. Unless we work on our character, we develop our trustworthyness-which leads us to trust. It was Victor Frankl, who said and reflected most of our lessons in a quote: “None will take away from me my freedom.”- We are free to decide and Frankl was the one, who basically figured out the meaning of freedom.
You are the happiest when you are a person you meant to be-not taking off the mask, because you only want someone to like you. and trying to be similar doesn´t feel quite right, when you do it. Those are the personal ethics you need to push through and let it come outside.
Personal Mission statement
Inner circle is an environment of things you are surrounded with and that you accept automatically. But if you stay in this circle for too long, you´ll never know how to experience the true learning from your mistakes. To escape your comfort zone gives you a wide open mind.
To create a personal constitution means that there is always something stable and we can handle. No matter what is happening around us, it is important to find our own inner peace, which will always pushes us foreward and will make us not to give up and keep fighting-because fights create self-awareness.
Visualize the positive, everything you do-it´s inner purpose for a mission.